FOR ACCOMPLISHED WOMEN OVER 50

You're powerful everywhere except the one place you want to relax and be chosen.

You've built a life most women only dream about. But somewhere along the way, your body learned to stay guarded, even when your heart is ready to receive the love you deserve.

These are patterns so deep that you don't recognize them. Patterns can shift.

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FREE GUIDE

There's a reason dating feels harder than it should.

You've no doubt been told that the problem is your impossibly high standards. Maybe you're just not using the right app, try another one. Really, the biggest problem is it's a shortage of good men who only want a nurse or a purse.

These are examples of patterns you've been running so long it feels like who you are.

Inside this free guide, you'll discover:

  • The 7 dating patterns accomplished women run without realizing it

  • Why your fears keep rejecting the men who actually meet your standards

  • The one shift that changes everything (and it has nothing to do with dating strategy)

Photo: The 7 Dating Patterns Guide

Smart Women Don't Realize They're Running.

And Why Recognizing Yours Changes Everything

WHAT YOU REALLY WANT

You're not asking for too much.

You've just never had permission to say it out loud.

To be pursued

You want a man who shows up, clearly, consistently, eagerly. Without chasing. Without strategizing. Without wondering if you're "too much" or "not enough."

To feel safe being soft

You want someone who makes it safe to let your guard down, and still respects who you are, without losing your power. You've been strong for so long.

To receive devotion

You want a man that matches your own capacity to give. You know how to love. You want someone whose love feels like rest, not like another thing to manage.

Maybe you felt broken or behind, when you've simply been protecting yourself.

Now you're ready to expand what you can receive.

That's not fixing. That's becoming more of who you already are.

These patterns aren't random, they are what you learned.

These women discovered their patterns and changed them.

Diane immediately snagged on a tiny metaphor that I tossed off. And she turned it into a totally unexpected, empowering, amazing visualization and meditation. Very grateful. THIS is coaching.

Annette M.

Richmond, VA

I was scared to start coaching, so so scared. BUT now I'm waking up excited! And learning so much. And having fun while I enter the dating world again.

Check out podcast episode 53 as CJ describes her coaching experience.

CJ

Dallas, TX

Talking with Diane, she explains things in a down-to-earth way. She is so easy and fun to work with, plus she knows her sh*t!

Cheryl R.

Asheville, NC

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MY STORY

At 57, I stopped trying harder.


Never married. Decades of dating that hadn't led to partnership. My mother had written me off. Some days I'd written myself off too.

I was successful. Self-aware. Doing everything dating culture told me to do. And I kept ending up in the same patterns.

What changed wasn't finding better men or better tactics. It was learning to calm my body enough to hear my intuition, and trust it.

On New Year's Eve 2017, I followed an intuitive nudge to place an ad on Craigslist. My husband found me there (he was actually looking for a lawn mower). We married when I was 58. The New York Times wrote about our wedding.


THE APPROACH

This is what you can expect.

This is expansion work for women who've built successful lives and are ready to be in partnership without shrinking who they are.

1

Expand Capacity First

We help your body feel safe to receive.

2

Clarity Emerges

You finally know what you actually want.

3

Strategy Works

Now the dating tactics land because you're showing up open.

7 patterns. One of them is running your love life.

This free guide will help you see what's been invisible. Not so you can fix yourself. So you can finally understand what's been in the way.

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